Re: I have multiple sclerosis
oh its been a long time since you last posted here...I remember you were expecting your third daughter at that time....hope the girls are all doing good...
You are Mashallah dealing it with utmost courage and strength....and may Allah reward you for that with health...ameen...
But you don't have to prove anything to anyone....hiring some help around the house with chores like cleaning ,laundry etc wont make you a bad mother....you will still be the one raising your kids...as you yourself mentioned that MS is something no one else is able to see and only those suffering from it know what they are going through,so why to put yourself through extra fatigue and work when you can surely get some help....
as far as your husband,unfortunately medical profession makes you insensitive ....and sometimes it is so much that they fail to understand when any loved one is going through some illness...or maybe its hard for him to accept it...its natural to be in denial when something happens out of the ordinary and unexpectedly....
you said you guys don't talk about the MS ....its ok,you want to take control of it and not the MS taking control of your lives....but talk to him,talk about getting some hired help...
May Allah bless you with health and make things easy for you and your family...ameen...:)