Re: I have multiple sclerosis
May Allah give you complete recovery from MS , Ameen.
Please do not try to be a super woman specially when you can afford to hire help then why not ?
Your MIL is not the one who has to deal with MS , three kids and a husband who is too busy , You are the one who has to deal with all that and you know what suits your situation. If your MIL does not want strangers to raise your kids then she should move in with you and help you out. But I would not advise that either looking at her attitude toward you .