hey guppies i really appriciate all ur sincere advises and am feeling lucky to be part of gup shup as all of ur sugesstions helped me out clear my mind and mashallah i feel much better its just that i luv hubby too much and am a very posessive wife and due to listening to stories from my friends i get paranoid easily:) thanks to allah i tried to sort things out and am happy that things got positive be4 it all got out ov hands...i feel lucky to have such a good MIL and a hubby who loves me a lot and the cutest son in the world mashallah please do remember me in ur prayers :)