The guys say "we’re objective and therefore constructive with our advice. Fair enough. I’m not denigrating the value of the advice or the consistency with which guys’ advice matches one another. It goes to the frame or lens through which guys are socialized to look at the world.
Women are complex creatures (no more so than than guys, although it may appear that way). We think and feel and react differently, which results in a mutliplicity of responses. I personally don’t apologize for it.
There are times I read what others write, their opinions and their advice and it makes me shake my head and I think, HELL NO! But, ultimately, I respect the multiplicity of opinions and think this is after all just the internet - and you’re bound to come across all sorts who are no more real to me than bits and bytes.
By giving this answer, I am sharing solely my view - others may have a different explanation - and that’s okay.
BTW, bumpkin? Do I come across as some county hick?
