I have generally noticed

CM · February 3, 2011, 1:47pm

Re: I have generally noticed

Sunshine, it’s disappointing that you would suggest interpersonal relationships are cookie cutter in nature and therefore there’s a universal or single response to resolving all issues arising from said relationships. You give greater significance to world and political events (not to say, those are not important), but your attitude towards personal relationships comes across as dismissive, whether or not that is the case. And so, I respectfully disagree that the issues are either logical or solved by a “logical” (read: unemotional) response.

As for point to you - sure I’ll give a point to you. Yes, most men on GS would appear to be pretty one-dimensional when it comes to Life1 issues and therefore respond similarly, which is in contrast to women posters - but I’ll chalk that up to men and women being physiologically different and more important, that women and men are socialized differently.

Khush?

My little bumpkins interpersonal relationships are not cookie cutter. The issues plastered on this website are. Since we are provided with a subjective point of view in a vacuum of information, therefore there is only one logical conclusion to a situation where information is limited and one wishes to remain objective. Ladies make subjective interpretations of what is posted from personal bias and apply that to the scenario regardless of its validity. You would agree with that statement correct?

Also lets not go all Star Trek. Logic is not the absence of emotion. It is working with emotion to come to a conclusion which is factual and in best interest of both parties. My attitude or the generic attitude of men to personal issues is ambivalent not dismissive. We do not blow stuff out of proportion as an example with the woman who has a great husband but she feels lonely. Crazy broad. Her issue is neither logical, factually based or with any sign of a thought process. It is completely emotional regardless of the ground realities.

Men and women maybe physiologically different and have different societal roles but each person is in fact an individual where nature molds them separately. This divergence is seen in the women of life1. It is not seen in the men. My question is why?

Gaia you failed to read the post after that where I agree with him. You would be hard pressed to find a man in life 1 who would not be at least a little uncomfortable that his wife had done something similar. Also to date no man has openly stated that is what he wants strippers for his bachelor party. However we have taken the piss out of the idea most definitely.