I have fallen for someone who is 11 years my senior

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:smack:

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im not saying that u arent in love ...it's possible....

just keep in mind that a lot of girls your age say "this is different" then 5 yrs later down the road they are like......"what was i thinking"!!

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^
I know, eh? :bummer:

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AnGeL EyEs, if that 'puppy love' is an infatuation than why do people remember it forever like a death of their family memeber?

Regardless you are 17 or 27, if you think that love is real than say it.

I do not think you understand love at any point of your life. It is an experience that lasts a lifetime.

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cuz it was their first experience of loving someone....doesnt mean its real! there are differnt levels of love u know.

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i agree with you man with a plan. also mera dil bohat dukhi hai because of ehat my ex fiance did. so dont you think kisi saharay ki zarrorat hoti hai

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Angel, Why it will not be real if it is their first?

How can you immerse in different levels of love when you do not experience and live through it?

aishindubai, just be careful and if you think it is real than let him know. Make sure he is single and available, otherwise it will mess things up for you.

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there u have it ppl!! this is rebound....not love.

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you just cant experience it til you have been through hell and back again with them (going through ups and downs, happiness and sadness, hardships and accomplishments)....and you know very well in our culture most couples cant go through that til they are married. SIMPLE!

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Serious reply: :smack:

Love is a relative term:snooty:

It carries different meaning to different people :frowning:

Love does have stages.. It does occur in early age… A child loves his/her mother since infancy:naraz:

We should love Allah & His Rasool (SAW), no matter what age we have…

As for loving someone… i dunno… :teary1:

you should only love someone who loves you more than you love that person… and it requires an age after you pass your teenage phase:barbie:…

kahaani khatam, pasiaa hazam ..

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love is not all about gazing into each others eyes and writing poetry.....it goes way beyond this.

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i agree

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If the happiness, sadness, harships and accomplishments are shared than yes it is true love but you have to be in love to go through it.

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but it is part of it too :naraz:

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yes of course....but this isnt going to happen for an 18 yr old...what hardships are they going to overcome at such an age and that 2 with another boy (who they arent married 2)...they are just begining their life

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oh yeaaaa it sure is!! :slight_smile:

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...it is different for different people (sadness, hardships and good times). People compromise and are willing to go through it because they are in love with the other person. Why do you think an 18 year old will not be willing to go through hardships? Nobody can anticipate anything at any age.

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hmm i dont think u understand what im trying to convey here :bummer:

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When you fell, did it hurt? I have heard that falling in love is bad for the knees. :halo:

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that happens a lot at your age. and i am going to tell you something. even though you have not mentioned it, he is probably your teacher.