Lets say your spouse comes to you one day and tells you that they have changed their mind.
It can be any of the two scenarios. One is where your spouse works, and they have decided they no longer want to work. The other scenario is your spouse doesnt work, and now they tell you they want to work. Will you be upset? I guess this is geared mostly at the guys(though it doesnt have to be), but for the girls I have a related question.
If you are a girl and you are the one who decides to change your mind, will you be understanding if your spouse isnt thrilled with the idea of you doing something different than agreed upon?
Most people that I know, go into marriage thinking they will do one or the other.
Oh, and if its a scenario where wife agreed not to work when kids were younger, imagine she now wants to work even when kids are young, or vice versa.
Most of these crucial things, couples usually discuss before marriage. If they don't, then they are quite naive and are in for big trouble if either one of them changes their mind.
there are some books out there which talk about things couples should discuss and talk about before tying the knot and it might be a good idea to gift that to someone newly engaged :D
We discussed both situations already so it wont be a surprise either way. For now, I think i will be working and wait till my mind changes. So yeah we are kinda waiting for my mind to change or kids to arrive.
That is a nugget that many people did not know about. PCG is doing such a nice job of stating the obvious, I say she deserves a new title…VCG= Very Clever Girl.
Hey man, sometimes you gotta state the obvious, for it may not be so obvious to all, as evidenced by how many women I see complaining about their marriages and attributing it to "hubby restricts me from x, y, and z".