I have a problem..

well not ME per say…but..this labelling of ‘maturity’ ‘immaturity’ who gives people the right to do as such? Some people do not act ‘immature’, they’re being who they are e.g someone with a carefree personality etc. And in most cases immaturity is often confused with a person being an arse. :no:

So what is ‘maturity’ and ‘immaturity’?

:konfused:

Jee, roza lag raha meray damagh ko I know. :chai:

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I think maturity has to do with the way people deal with things...if you constantly let emotions get the better of you and fail to see the bigger picture and its importance...you can be perceived as immature.

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if you constantly let emotions get the better of you
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Depends on the emotions.

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fail to see the bigger picture and its importance..
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Immature then, I agree!

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mere husband bahir hote hain,dosray mulk. wo bohat mature hain.

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You have a problem?
Well, the first step to recovery is admitting that you have a problem. Well done! :D

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Shak, aaj kia baghar sehri ka hai?

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Oh, twisting my words she is and I am made out to be the poor devious lawyer :asa:

DC kya kahoon tuvada meray praa :no:

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Haha I read 'I have a problem...by Shak09' and thought yup, that sounds about right. :D

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immaturity-childish behaviour. if you thinka child would behave in such a way, then its called imature.

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people find immature people annoying. I find mature ones even more annoying. Just be yourself. Learn from your mistakes and just make sure, your actions arent causing someone else's life to be miserable. That's all. Stay true to yourself always - even if you have childish tendencies..:P..I get told by EVERY guy I am such a child - so I usually just go "whatever...."I mean these very people who say this stuff arent the ones who are gona get me through life. I am going to get through life on my own so I am going to do it my way. If someone is getting annoyed, they can choose other friends.

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if a person behaves childish n his age is quite enough to get mature then we can call it "immaturity"

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Shakoo,

Being the nice velvet that I am, I'd like to help you. I too believe, that the first step (as suggested by Syraa), is to wholly accept that all is not well. To do that, you must first change the the title of this thread. How so?

Well.........by simply removing the article "a"......and adding an "s" after the word "problem." :D

It being Ramzan and all...I shall be benevolent and not charge you a phooty kauri for this invaluable piece of wisdom.

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First sign of immaturity is when someone asks what is maturity. :stuck_out_tongue:

Off course it means being baaligh! :hehe:

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hunh? honestly i didnt get what kamchor-immature-kachumer you are talking about. :eek:

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Maturity is right decisions at right time .

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you are immature when supposedly mature ppl dont seem to get you :@:

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yes i have problem some are big they do not solve problem is problem

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^ That post makes perfect sense…not.

:konfused:

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my favourite post :)...you nailed it!

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:aliyish: