Re: i hate this ******* process
i hope you find a way out of it, 714... it sucks. i, too, hated it, desperately - it felt so suffocating and just illogical to me. AH it worked out in the end... i mean, i basically moved out, met my husband, and eventually married him. my parents were resistant at first but then came to understand and accept my thought process, so thank God, it worked out well. however, with all the crap i went through, i wouldn't recommend it unless you're at breaking point, which is where i was... can you not apply for a job elsewhere? or study some more in a university far away? desi parents seem to be more open to those suggestions than others sometimes...