i hate relatives!

[shera21]

Re: i hate relatives!

salam guys!!

out of 100% im happy abt 75%

and ya i was hoping for something good and i got

allhamdolillah

@sazzie

if fasting is damaging your health then you shoudnt fast yup, i hope you know though that islam says you should then feed a poor person for each day you don’t fast?
Secondly, yeah we all have relatives we dont like, either you try to spend as little time with them as possible or you just have to grit your teeth and dont let them get to you.
isnt there anyone you could talk to?no friends?
Lastly, im very sorry about your father’s death, may allah give you sabr and strength.

sure i give something 2 the poor ppl if i dont fast! … dont tell me i always do everything which is our duty!
of i would even not think abt somethign godo then open this thread and ask for adivice i would never do!
if i wont do that i wouldnt call ym self a perfect muslim xcuse me … =)

@X2

1- if u cant fast you cant fast. The religion does not want you to hurt yourself, in my view if one fasts at the expense of their health its actually rejecting the ease that god has given us in not fasting if the health does not allow it
2- **your husband stays out of it, thats good, he is not getting in between you and your family. It would create more issues if he was doing that. your **
3- instead of ‘shouting’ back…find some info which clearly states that one does not have to fast if an issue due to health or it is too much of a hardship for one to bear. next time he get son your case, calmly but firmly tell him, you cant fast, it is allowed to not fast, and as far as you go this discussion and topic is finished and you will not entertain discussion, lectures and surely yelling on the topic.
4- next time he brings it up, dont even respond to him, if he insists just say, I thought i closed this topic, please respect my wishes. dont engage

just avoid the guy, you dont have to interact with him, people change and you cant letthem or yourself hang some good they had done for you in the past as some ehsan ko tokra. one is free to change as long as this change then does not make them treat other bad.

my husband promised me at our first wedding night that i will stay in front of u like a wall if somebody even looks at u badly and even put a finger of u? where is the wall??

know after i could c that i should trust him anymore i was always in doubt abt our friendschip and love but where is it know?.. would u bear if someone comes and slaps on ur face dosent matter with word or hand and ur hubby would stay and laugh on u?

thnx for the advices =)

@nadz123

sorry to hear about your father.

ok, witht he cousin thing, i mean hes your COUSIN, not even an uncle, who the hell is he…if he is your cousin, your mum shouldve said something, and husband…i feel angry on your behalf…and why did you tell your cousin you dont fast, alot of people find no justifcation for not fasting, pathetic people. i find it odd people preach about fasting , when its not even MANDATORY ( THERE ARE ways to compensate) yet dont practise namaz which is mandatory…or dont preach about namaz to the same effect as they do on fasting..

abt telling or not telling! hey even islams says of u do something then dont lie abt it
if somebody doesnt pray and this person go and tell that i pray the listerner would say wow1 but why is he saying this? showing up how someone is? darr ki wajh c!

so i dont need 2 get scared and showing up by lieing that im fasting or not! my mother no sorry allah tala holy prophet and quran says dont lie! lieing is the first step 2 get in dauzagh! xcuse me?

he was just trying 2 be my father uncle hone ki bohut door ki baat hai