mizsani
February 20, 2016, 4:46am
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Re: I hate my mother in law
^^ while I agree selling the jewelry was a very bad move, it doesn’t mean comments on your complexion or having acne (like in her previous post) is that big of a deal to (almost) hate your mother in law !!!
If you have pimples, and someone points it out, yes it can be something to be a little upset over because no one wants those, yet, it’s the same as someone saying “you have eyebrows”. A fact is a fact. Or, if someone denies that you are fair skinned, when you are, then why hold on to frustration? What will be achieved over a stupid comment? Get what I mean?
I’m just saying, it’s petty to dwell on this. if I was OP, I would be more focused on my kid, helping her to be a better reader or teaching her kindness so she grows up a lovely girl. Or, learning new recipes to please my family, etc etc.. Not caught up in lame comments a MIL passes on.
If nonsense things like these are dwelled upon, it makes me wonder how she is handling (and avoiding hyper ventilating) over real issues like having your jewelry being sold. I know my words seem a bit harsh, but sit back and think about the (non) gravity of the situation.
I don’t think it is just the comments though. Sometimes these things keep building up until u have no patience for them. Maybe the OP is giving these examples because these are the most recent. I have a feeling that this goes on all the time for OP to get worked up.