To me, it seems like times are changing. The girls that are born and raised here, are no longer happy if they are married off to total strangers by their parents, who most of the times come from back home.
more and more girls nowadays know what they want and they demand that their needs be met........thats why. before girls just went with what their parents wanted and just went with the flow of things even if they were not happy they made the most of it.