like totally brilliant. Him liking me changed things and when i finally told him i don’t like him he cut ALL contact with me. That was 4 years back. I miss him so so so so badly …especially days like today when he emails me after 8 months and i just miss him so badly.
I know i hurt him all those years ago but i have paid with not having there for me ever since.
Just had to get it out of my system, ta.
awww … 
Maybe you can try the friendship thing again. Things may have changed with him too since it’s been 4 years. Now you are getting married; who knows where his life has taken him. Are you planning on talking to him again?
You are both more mature now and will be able to approach the friendship as adults. I think you should definitely give it a shot.
Phir se dosti kar lo. 
And stop crying it’s such a nice day today in the NW, we don’t get that often, just watch it start to piss down now.
Mehnaz, i spoke to him last September and he mentioned how talking to me brought back the hurt and pain. I guess he doesn’t want to be friends again. He’s moving on ..getting engaged next month etc and i suppose some chapters of a book are better closed.
Ashti, you in NW?? Whereabouts? Yeah weathers gorgeus..pity about the low spirit 
@ myself
awww why did he e-mail you if he doesn’t want to be friends?
Isn't there a movie on this subject and situation ! may be u should rent out that movie tonight, it might help... "Loha Lohay ko kat ta haay.."
Dekho, DD, there are a lot many other "brilliant" guys out there that you can make friends with but the thing with this guys is kinda different and unique. It has to do with the fact that he likes you so any friend who likes you too is obviously gonna go extra mile for ya which you can't find with 'just a common' friend. Secondly, it's human nature that we like to be liked. It feels good that someone is yearning for us etc etc. Kinda pats of our selfish self-esteem.
So you kinda need to go a little introspective on this one and do a little self-critical tajzia. And keep away from him. Don't reply to his emails etc. uss ko khud hee aqal aa jaayay gee.
PS-
waisay, ullu ka patha is getting engaged and what is he doing sending you emails anyway? Cold feet. Might be. I don't know.
Roman, true. Someone who likes you will worship you and do a lot moreeeee..it seems kinda selfish but even though your feelings are not as they would want them to be you still end up wanting them to be there for you.
I won't be replying to his email, hopefully.
Chachoo, you sure it's gona help?
Rukhsarbibi, friends in the sense of email me once a year. Not the everyday banter we had. Maybe i'm just missing my teen years.
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Chachoo, you sure it's gona help?
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I guess you will find out :) .. let us know if it helps !
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Rukhsarbibi, friends in the sense of email me once a year. Not the everyday banter we had. Maybe i'm just missing my teen years.
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people who e-mail me once a year are not friends. They are mere acquaintances.
DD you do know what they say abt old flames and walking down the aisle :o
dont mail him back whatever u do, stay strong and look ahead
awww 
i miss my old friend too… i was so mean to him when he was around.. and now hes gone…
why wont u reply to him? if he is/was a good friend.. i think he deserves a congrats at the least.. no?
Sadzz,
ASHTI LOL LOL Haslingden. I have a friend from there…it’s not that unknown. My friend boasts of it’s beauty and how once he got attacked by a stray llama in a field haha brought back some memories.
He's called Abdul, got a beard. He's a Pathan..one of his brothers is a solicitor.
And he's a pure gem.
Hmm..i notice that friendship also changes like
you have a relationship or marriage.
Coz i ve a friend to and he always use talk to me
and if i was not there he mails me.
Lekin ab woh baat nahi karta na mail hmm....
I wonder why and sometime's i miss that day
that we talked and mail each other.
Nilu.
What the??? I just checked his threads because of you mentioning Haslingden.
Mr. Ashti is from Haslingden and speaks Hindko?
I’m from Haslingden and Hindko speaking too, never heard of any Ashti Mashtis round here, then again I don’t get out much.
Unless he’s from Helmshore and related to a fat overgrown elephant called Sabrina Khan, she spoke Hindko and had some funny named cousins. 
Unless that's not his real name, like my own was registered so I used this.