Re: I had a big argument with future-in-laws
No.....the wife does not come first. The parents do....as they should.
How can you ask that of someone?
Is that how you would want your bhabhi to behave with your own parents?
If the father took the initiative to call you and question you about an argument then accept that as his way of showing his care and concern for you and your future husband's relationship. Follow suit and call him up when you have some time and are calmer.
Tell him that you were unable to properly address his questions about the argument from work and that you would like an opportunity to discuss the situation with him as you respect his wisdom and hope to continue to benefit from it.
Why do girls make this into a question of "who comes first?" ?????
Why?