Re: I had a big argument with future-in-laws
I dunno it rubs me the wrong way when people tell you to run. Let me tell you why. I am nikkah-fied and have lot of interference from my in-laws my FIL is not alive but we get much interference from my MIL. My hubby is her son so whatever his mom says has an effect on him ...n sometimes he fights with me because of something his mom said that influenced him .... and he doesnt know it and usually I dont know it at that time I find out later from one of his own cousins that that's what happened...so what am I supposed to do? would you guys give me the same advice to walk out?
running away isnt the solution to any problem ....standing up for your rights and fighting for them...setting up boundaries and discussing those with your life partner (to-be) is the way to solve problems...