I guess guys want some affirmation as well.

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It’s all well and good for a girl to act like a disinterested icequeen (it’s a question of pride), but I guess guys want some sort of signal or encouragement from the girl as well (the respectful ones). But at the same time a girl should be subtle, giving off the right signals at the right time. It makes sense because if neither party ever express their feelings or say whats on their mind, a possibly successful relationship would never come into fruition.

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Re: I guess guys want some affirmation as well.

Are you asking or are you telling :konfused: ?

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Re: I guess guys want some affirmation as well.

How do you know that the signal isn’t just a friendly signal and it’s a”more than just friends” signal. I’m sending signals, he’s sending signals. But I think we’re both thoroughly confused!

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Re: I guess guys want some affirmation as well.

I’m saying what I think…I was beginning to believe guys were stone-hearted unemotional beings, but they have feelings too. lol

LK, when its a more than just friends signal, you recognise it immediately! Stop beating around the bush and ask him straight up what’s on his mind. :stuck_out_tongue: I was recently asked what’s on my mind, so I bared all and in return I got twice the returns :eek: So it does pay off!

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Re: I guess guys want some affirmation as well.

:teary1:

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Catty I dont think I'm ready to bear all yet, if asked sure I'll be honest.

I mean for me if a guy puts him arm aroudn me it's special. for some it's somethign they do with their pals everyday. Different things mean different things to everyone.

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^ I read that part of your diary and was going to comment that when that guy put his arm around you it definitely is a big deal, its like holding hands. Its an intimate thing to do, and you can tell the difference between how a friend does it and how an interested party does it.

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well hmm…

there is this girl..who whenever sees me coming immedately wears a ring on her ring finger…now is she trying to giving me some sort of subtle hints that she wants me or sthing..im so confused :bummer:

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But there was that "excuse" of the chilly weather....every thing he does has that excuse to cover it up.