I gots a question

Lifestyle Relationships
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Believe me, people who are caught up in a rut of hijab and beard are like big hollow trees.

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Whoa....you get WI-FI in the kitchen?

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I have a lot to say on this, but it might hurt the mullah ego.

delusional, they are.

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You might offend someone? That's the spice that makes Life1 go round. Please share.

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applause

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Here's the answer. Women put up with it.

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:bizz:
:tomato:

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according to Islam 2.0, your thread is going to speak on the day of judgment. Better not open them :ast:

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It is because there are certain mullah type people who want to keep women to homes only. lol@makeup or eyeshadow going to speak on the day of judgment.

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Not even a teensy bit funny?

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well…ok…maybe just a* teensy *bit… :mehr:

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Religiously-husbands can ask wife to cover.and its as simple as that. REGARDLESS of wether he has beard or not. Relgiously husbands can tell his wife what to wear, because its a farz for him to tell her. now if she does it or not, is up to her. but its a farz for him to tell her. I think if we females start bringing relgion into our arguments, pretty soon we will realise, that husbands have more say in pretty much everything, so if my husband tells me to cover, i should. but when i start arguing with him against it, theres no BASE for me to argue against it. hes right.

so hadith or not, i think its great these men are providing us women with knowlegdge. now to return that FAVOUR, any hadith we women know FOR MEN?

In fact do we know any HADITH.....that we follow ourselves....

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:k:

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Maybe if we stop spending so much time in health and beauty section of this forum, we may know some HADITHS ourselves no…

:hypo:

I know NONE. and i spend 23 hours of a 24 day on health and beauty…so that lactic acid huh…works wonders…:cool:

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Men are supposed to lower their gaze, despite what women are wearing. I have heard a lot of people say women are asking for attention when their dress a certain way, even if that is the case, it does not mean you give it to them. On the day of judgement you can't tell Allah that and get away with it. You are accountable for your own deeds. Maybe the problem with Mullah's is or one reason why they don't have much respect in society is some, not all are arrogant and proud. They think that their right and everyone else is wrong. This in itself if a sin, there is a Hadith that clearly says you will not be allowed into paradise if you arrogant or proud. Constantly trying to make other people feel bad because you feel their not following religion correctly, is wrong. There is a Hadith that says a true Muslim is one that does not hurt another with his hand or tongue.
Yes, women should dress modestly and yes guiding anyone to the right path , is the right thing but there is a way of doing it.

Another reason why maybe these issues are given more importance is because we don't want to look at the more important matters , because then we'll actually have to do something or have to work to change our personality. This would require a lot more work. There are countless Hadith's that highlight the importance of charity, kind speech and feeding the poor and working for the Muslim Ummah.
Islam is not about following some strict rituals, dressing a certain way , doing this and not doing that etc. It's about developing our relationship with our creator this in turn will instill respect in us for his creation and then generally the desire to follow his commands with all our heart and walk on the right path. Yes dressing etc is important but we should remember the importance of praying and maybe highlight that just as much as we highlight the importance of modest dressing in Islam. We should also remember , that no one will be allowed to move on the day judgement until we have answered those five questions, on how we spend our youth, time ,wealth , where we earned our wealth and how we acted upon our knowledge. Before anything, we should be ready to answer these questions. Everything should be given importance.

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I think you might be reading too much into them. Every guy is different and I’m quite sure these “so many” threads don’t reflect the greater consensus of muslim males, but only that of the OP. If he feels so strongly about it I’m sure he’ll find someone who complies with his requests in this matter.

As far as them making threads for the purpose of trying to change the ways of everyone they possibly can, fair enough they may be trying to educate on the matter, but there is a different between guidance and religion bashing. I believe the way a person practices his/her religion is a matter between that person and God. As long as someone’s practices aren’t affecting me in (what I believe is) a negative way, I’ll keep my yapper shut. Live and let live.

Concerning the issue about husbands telling their wives what to do and so on, I’m not yet married or too informed on the matter altogether. Saying that though, my prospective wife can dress the way she wants. I mean there are obviously limits. If she goes grocery shopping in boxer shorts and a bikini top I’d ask her “so whats the go with that?”

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InshaAllah you will not need to ever ask that question. LOL

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Good on ya nadz123 and diya01 ... instead of asking us guys to back off with the Islam - you counter us guys with what we should be doing that we aren't ... this way we think twice before giving advice ... "what could she say about me ... if I say this about her?"

And then hopefully this will encourage us to improve one another.

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LOL!
Ameen to that!

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There are many ahadith in favour of women, but its up to women to find them, because some men are very selective in their ahadith espousing that you'd think the world revolved around them and their issues..