Re: "I got married because..
If you see it happening in your family and find it the norm then it’s not a problem if everyone is aware of the situ so the fact the bloke is being quite open about it is IMHO a good thing.
In my paternal family the daughters and sons look after their parents (my Dada/Dadi). When it comes to Hospital appointments my Chacha can’t get to because of work etc my oldest Aunts son takes them as his work is flexi. We all pitch in; and don’t rely on my Chachi’s etc-so I am of that thought. I will be helping my Mother InshAllah when time comes-I don’t expect others to care for my parent.