I was to nervous for it that the doctor did not checked me.
I really could not help that i was like that i really try my
best to calm down.
Now i told my hubby about that that i was to nervous and i strech
my self when the doctor want to check me.
And also told him i try it not get nerveus and dont strech
my self and be calm.
But my husband get angry at me coz did not let checked by
the doctor and said very bad things to me like i never get
kids coz im afraid to let me self get check up he also calls me
abanch. I feel very sad and anger towards him coz he call me like
this. Its not easy for a women to do a inward check up by a doctor.
Sigh* I feel very horrible now. Maybe i never get a child:(
Shaid yehi likha hai mere kismat mei.
Even with a female physician?
By the way did your husband get himself checked yet? because thats the first thing that is usually done in case of infertility.
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Even with a female physician?
By the way did your husband get himself checked yet? because thats the first thing that is usually done in case of infertility.
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Yes, my husband was tested before but now they want
tested him again.
And it was not a female doctor but a male doctor but
that is not the problem.
I just to nervous
Nilu
Alot of the causes of infertility are treatable. It willl be better if you go to a female doctor. If that does not help, tell them that you want to start with an ultrasound or other tests that are done in cases of infertility. Gyn exam is usually not required as workup for infertility. They can start with estrogen or progesterone challenge, depending on your periods.
But when you go there, just relax. It will be over even before you know it.
no offence but from whatever u have told us about ur marital problems, ur husband sounds like a first class jerk. i dont understand how cud u even tolerate his behaviour in the first place, let alone want to have kids with him.
if he calls u names and hurts u so much, why are u still with him?!
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no offence but from whatever u have told us about ur marital problems, ur husband sounds like a first class jerk. i dont understand how cud u even tolerate his behaviour in the first place, let alone want to have kids with him.
if he calls u names and hurts u so much, why are u still with him?!
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Exactly....these men give us a bad name. Lack of understanding of the issue and balme it on the women. Instead of being helpful and encouraging he is being a jerk.
Yup. I think before bringing a kid into the picture, you and your husband should consider doing something about your relationship. Perhaps speak to an elder, a counselor, I don't know what. Just be careful not to use the child as a way to patch up the marriage or as an excuse to fight.
Ya i know my husband is sometimes a first class Jerk!
And i talked to a older person that was my phuphi
but she said to me all mans call theire wifes bad name.
Instead to help me she said this i feel very sad when she
said that. And why i want a child i dont know maybe coz
the pressure in Pakistan of my parents in law.
Gosh sometimes i hate my life.
..