I gave badwa

[preciousheera]

Re: I gave badwa

@Bobby1

Continue being kind and nice to her for your sake as you have a long life ahead of you and you don’t want the regrets to haunt you once she is gone. My mother was very destructive and hurtful towards us and I still chose to care for her not expecting for her to change but because I didn’t want any regrets after. I feel that was a great decision of my life. You are in charge of your feelings, she cant upset you if you choose not to get upset. Just tell yourself no matter what she says you will not get upset.

True, but it’s been 10 years now. I have two little kids of my own now (both she hasn’t bothered to meet!)
I feel like I’m just flogging a dead horse.