I feel so sad

I feel so sad for not going to pak..
i wanna go thr n meet my parents n introduce my baby to them… Just wanna meet them..it’s been 1.5 yrs n I m here in us…

Husband says will go when time comes but don’t know whennn..I know he will take me but when don’t know… He is a lil concerned about baby tht he is jst 7 months n all… Will get beemar n all..
butt I just wanna go.. I feels like crying so bad I miss them aloootttttttttttt…
I know we will gi when Allah has planned for us but I feel sad how should stop this sadness :frowning: n missing them

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aaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwww...call them, skype using cam...1.5 years isn't that long...some folks make their first visit after 5 years or so...iA you'll go within a year...just keep hope and pray for it...iA, it will happen sooner than you anticipate. Good Luck! :)

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In the meantime....skype with your parents if you can.

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Maybe they can come visit!

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Thnx kkf hope so
inshallah... This will be my 2nd visit..

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Yup I do.... But it's just I wanna aaa goooooooooo n meeeet :(

I feel so sad

Insha Allah you will :hugz:

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you should blog such things… it will be good for you.. an outlet for your emotions :slight_smile: visit the blog section.. and make friends :hello:

as for the problem… tell him its winter… chances of baby getting sick are less.

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babies get sick all the time in pak just like anywhere else esp during winter!!!

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I dont know why people think that babies get sick alot in paksitan...........i agree that the chances of catching virals is increased but the funniest thing is during all my trips to pak my young ones survived really well every time......it was me and my husband who got sick

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Tell your husband to man up. Sorry but what a silly reason not to go. As long as you are more careful, babies are fine.. We travelled a lot with our little ones including visits to Pak. Nothing happened !! Go visit your parents, life is too short... Yea people survive 5 years but with what majboori? Life isn't worthwhile unless you're with the people that matter... Go!!

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Hmmm u r ritee Khawa… I think of it sometimes …
Where should I make friend I don’t have any :frowning:

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Talked to him n he is planning something lets see.. Bt not for now later.. Let's see

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where do you live?does your hubby has friends that you two interact with?

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I live in us..
He has friends but not the ones to meet ..I mean we don't go..
infact no relatives either