^ I was thinking that as well. There seems to be a difference in the degree of religiousness. Ask him why he wants you to cover your arms. And if he doesn't want you wearing jeans....work with him on this. How about a proposal for looser-fitting jeans....or trouser style jeans?
I don't know if this is a good idea, Nadz. But I believe that hijab (scarf) should be done for Allah....not for your husband or any other person for that matter. If you decide to implement a respected religious practice in your life....you wan't to do it for the right reasons. Perhaps that's a point that should be brought up with your fiance. Faith should be sincere.
YEH its for allah not husband.. but you should never force anyone right? i feel forced...i feel forced in regards to most things because they are what relgion requires or what a wife is required to do.....its all requirements.....and i admit im not relgious...bt i am a muslim of course. maybe only by name...but i feel more inclined not to do something the more someone forces/tell me to....