i duno wat to do...

i need advice…
umm.. i hv this cousin… not really a cousin just a relative.. hes around 28
he lived with us whn we were in syria for 2 yrs..
thn he left

now m in dubai after 3 yrs he tld me tht he has feeligns for me..
but ive been in love for the first time in my life with sm other guy from past 2 yrs…
here in uae…
n i really love him..
now this cousin of mine was here.. and cuz i always felt he had feelings for me i tld him about myself and he was really upset an he just confessed after leaving uae that he loved me..
and i feel bad..
im very happy alhamdulilah wit the guy i love…cuz hes my first love, crush everything..never had b/f b4 him..its my first time..and v are looking forward to get married..
but i cant help my self feel bad for this cousin of mine…
sm1 tell me wat do
thnks

Re: i duno wat to do…

khudkushi :k: :jazak: :mash:

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dont say that..plz
m really looking for advices…

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ok this is how i understand this...

ur cousin likes you
u dont like your cousin
u like someone else

sounds simple to me..just stop ur cousins advances..and go wit the guy u like..

Re: i duno wat to do...

Love those who love you not those whom you love

and the guy must have following qualities in him

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Who always wants to see deep in your eyes for long long hours. Wait for the one who brings only one rose flower with a big smile on his face. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."

and whoever has these qualities

go for that lovely guy :)

yo girl yo
go girl go

enjoy your popularity :p
but like is not khel so be careful
decide after considering pros and cons of both

Re: i duno wat to do...

Lussi: I second that

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hey B/G
thnks for the advice..
my guy has everything u just mentioned here…
since ive never beenin any realtionship there must be smth special tht i have fallen for him rite..??
anwyay’z all im hving problem with is the guilt feeling tht i have…thts it…
i duno wat to do about it

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You just put the halt to his story , try to be rude to him if you really care for him , this way he will think otherwise (that maybe you were not his right chioce) , i know its difficult to prove yourself bad . but you dont know what happens when someone is hurt. he will be hurt for short time but i bet he cant live his life alone so he wiill definitely look for a partner as humans cant live alone. har kisi ko sahara chahiye

tell him

love those who love you not those whom you love

Re: i duno wat to do…

another pcg :confused:

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Tell me about it, saw the post and wondered what happened to her writing, not to mention the b/f stuff...

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One word, N0NS3NS3.

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:eek: .. thats exactly wut i thought when i saw her nick :eek:

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Troller alert.

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forget the other guy....there is nothing u can do about it

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Clearly there is only one solution that will leave all three parties satisfied: A Three-some. :k:

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taking some timeout from both of them will be a good option. I have seen waiting games pay very well.

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Sharam karo :nono4:

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How about you stop watching Indian movies, grow up, and then start thinking about long term relationships. You sound like you're about 15 years old cuz the issue you have brought forth is a typical teenage "I love him and someone loves me but I don't love him back" kinda issue.

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Hey what the hell man!

They let you register with that nick???

MY NAME is PyariCgudia!

:kaboom:

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doesnt art mirror life

Where is the chicken and who is the egg