Re: I don't want to get pregnant
stardust,
have u both tried to sit down and discuss this subject as two mature adults? getting worked up or angry is not going to get u anywhere sweety. make sure you communicate your reasons for not wanting a child so soon. (do u want to work, further your education, do u not feel mentally mature enough for a childe?)....and make sure he gives you a good concrete answer as to why he wants one ASAP. in my opinion, a person doesnt just ''want a baby''. you have to have a sufficient reason. maybe he feels that you two will be finacially and emotionally stable as soon as u are married..? maybe he has pressure from his parents/family? ask him questions and get him to open up. :)