Hey ya W.B. Aslkm!
Whatz up? Hmmm… wish I knew the “something” precisly,here goes again…
Double expectations come in view from a girl these days. i.e. Get good education, be able to stand on ur feet (being able to get a mighty good job). So if in the long term one runs out of luck, gets married to a wacko, or a ‘choowy ji’ and some how the wife remains behind (i.e. Husband dies etc, or divorce, Allah BachaAy) she’ll be still able to support her kids and carry on with life independantly.
U see, the irony is when ppl say “aurath ko chardeewari mei rakho” thats fine with me and I’ll be more than glad to do nothing, but sit home pretty (hhh…such lazy lux’ries’ :)tehee…) but the tragedy is, these days society is exactly opposite to what it was during the beloved Prophet’s (PBUH) supreme era. Women were well looked after, well provided, well sheltered, and well supported. So there was no need for them to go out in the open world. These days, if some still say that “oye, Ghar mei rako issay” tho ji wo kuch ziyada hee haqikath saay door rehtain hain. Kiyon kay in that case, they are kept indoors, but they are not provided with all that care and their requirments are not met according to the proper Islamic, and survival standards (never mind, totally different theory…).
Anyway, some other issues that freak ppl out to have a girl, are their lame (i Guess) horrors about the “Hayay Allah, Kahein naak na katwa baytay” misra. So if anything happens to a girl (is abused,raped, or is seen with a ghar mahrim which might be a totall “NO!” NO! in our society) is dub to have cause the whole family ultimate disgrace. Some one told me once, that girls are like delicate flower patels, one fierce touch, and they’re destroyed!
BoSS, these were among some of the -ive reasons I’ve noticed in this (apni) society, which cause ppl to scream their heads off upon the arrival of a baby girl in their lives.
Other things I’ve noticed big times is, that when it comes to ghayrat, some prefer to kill their girls when they are raped or so on…
Even if she is totally innocent. But irony is Islam never teaches that. So in conclusion some ppl in our society are more pressuriZed by the societal status quo, rather being “jawab-day” to Allah SWT in the akhira.
Personaly? Alhamdulilah, I have been brought up by very loving parents, My abu was so happy when I was born. When some dude sadly told him at the hospital,
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" Sir ji, Ap ki bayti howee hai"
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He got so cyced that he rewarded the person with $$$$ :)and started dancing (kidding, tehee..)
Alhamdulilah, I have two very caring, and sweet bro’s and well one hates me (cuz I make him do his h.w) but Abid and I are so crazy about each other. Got a lil’ sis, whoz the blonde, green eyed lado ji of the whole
family :)And Alahamdulilah, we are brought up with extreme attention and love. MashAllah! (Thank U so much Allah Jani…)
Oh, I love being a girl :)Life is very easy in alot of ways (for explaination, read the article posted on general section, “Tribute to all Muslimas…”)
Whew! Gotta stop writing thaaat much! Sorry
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Till then,
Wsalam mo aliakum wa rah ma tullah!
Daysee Behna 
Ps. Hey! Me thought the spanish gift was being rejected by W.B. Sigh :):):)haha!
