Re: I don’t understand
I hate writing about stuff like this and asking for advice like a little girl but I’m really confused as to what’s going on.
A few weeks ago, I started at a new uni. I was talking to my group of friends and a desi guy randomly came up to me and started asking if we were in the same program (we are) and we made small talk about where we’re from and all that. We parted ways and, though I was intrigued because he was really cute, I didn’t give it a second thought because I figured we’d never really see each other (our class is pretty big). The next night, he added me on FB. Apparently it was his bday so I said happy bday to him on there (we don’t see each other in class most of the time) and he immediately messaged me asking me what’s up. Again…small talk for a while. A few days later, I emailed him and his friends something for class and he emailed back; this started an exchange about plans for the weekend and we ended up exchanging number (he gave me his first). 5 mins later, I check my phone and I have a missed call from him. I called back thinking he wanted help with school but he ended up making small talk for a while. So…random. After that, he would text me everyday asking me random questions (the next night he asked me “what kind of a desi” I was), stuff like that. Joking about how i never invite him to study with me, etc.
what’s so weird is that when I see him in person in a big group, he acts like he barely knows me; he never addresses me. It’s SO random…and rude. We went out for dinner in a huge group yesterday (I had invited him hoping that we’d have a chance to talk, but someone decided to invite 2873892 other people so that ruined it) and he sat all the way in the corner and never even acknowledged my existence (I was sitting next to some of his other friends on the opposite side). And no texts or anything today.
I am legitimately confused. He’s fairly good looking and I AM attracted to him (he’s a nice guy for the most part, also) and I really did think he was interested. I’m not the type of girl that tends to think that guys like her usually so I figured he was being fairly obvious for me to pick up on it. I’ve caught him hovering and waiting for me by the stairs outside class a few times and all that but I don’t know…I’d really like to get to know him more, but I wonder if I’m coming on too strong by texting him? Or (I have a habit of doing this), in my attempt to look not desperate, I’m overcompensating by just ignoring him and it seem as if I’m completely not interested.
Any ideas?
first of all whats this number all about?
Second, you made a major mistake and that was, showing your interest!
Ignore him! You will feel the difference!
