Re: I don’t understand men…
I’m afraid it doesn’t work like that Haaniya. Once you break up, hanging onto each other as friends or whatever you want to call it does not help and it isn’t healthy. I think you’re going to need to take a stand and cold-turkey it. If you don’t you’re giving him hope by being in touch. Yeah, you’re going to say you aren’t and you never said anything like it but he’s not going to think that. The easiest solution to this situation is to let go of him and let him be. Yeah he gave in to his mum, yeah you guys ended it but you ended it mutually (We decided to remain friends). So just be kind to the him and yourself by cutting off all contact.