I don't understand men....

Re: I don’t understand men…

you cant marry him coz his mum said no…
you cant stay just friends coz you keep thinking about marriage/what ifs…you are neither here, nor there

so for your own sake, you gotta let go
if you stick to him even as a friend, you’ll not move on emotionally(as you said you dont want to)…why do you want to let this situation hurt you??