Re: I don’t understand men…
Haaniya, I would encourage you to let go of him, don’t speak to him, just do the normal thing; stalk him secretly.
Seriously though, this:
It doesn’t matter if you don’t want to. Make yourself understand that wants are tricky things, not to be trusted. I have observed that more often than not romantic entanglements make people so very selfish. This makes me wonder whether it is indeed romance they have or whether they are simply just accustomed to the attention they provide each other; habits are hard to break. His behaviour, and how many times he messages you is of no consequence, he is no doubt having a difficult time letting go himself, but that is not your concern; you need to focus on your own actions. Best of luck with it.