So funny that this is what guys take from the story.
I don’t think this girl has an issue with her husband supporting his family financially. She has an issue with the level of domination this dad has on not only her husband but also on her. Even my family doesn’t ask me every night what time they went to bed or that I need permission to take a walk.
Now yes, we’re hearing one side of the story, and maybe they panicked for your safety when they saw you weren’t in the house. But he shouldn’t have yelled at you - he should have said we thought you were lost, and we were worried. Next time just let us know where you’re going so we don’t get worried that someone kidnapped you.
sighz I’m sorry. Our desi families are so screwed up.
In our family the rule is, leave the new couple ALONE. Let them do what they want and don’t ever knock on their closed door or enter their bedroom even if the room is open. I’ve never heard bahu’s being talked to like this in our family, and never heard of my girl cousin’s being treated like this in their new home.
This IS abnormal. Vaise, you are a doctor. I know you have more balls than to allow someone to walk over you like this. Are they letting you go to work? Are they letting you pursue your career here?