Anyway Pakistani society is judgemental. So of course the people are. Why not just hang out with those who you feel comfortable with.
I'll make that sammich for you :) and I promise it will be completely edible and not at all hazardous to your health
I know that a few true friends are few and far but what strikes me as off is that I have not come across a strong minded Pakistani girl yet, they all seem to conform to one thing or the other
and none of my friends are pakistanis
its just not nice being a girl, men get away with having their own views and being able to express them but women just get plastered the moment they step into the arena