I don’t.
Well, I know hundreds of girls but none of them actually know me. They are just acquaintances and we have nothing in common.
I can’t abide by gossip it drives me insane, and unfortunately its what most women absolutely thrive on.
Whats wrong with Pre-raphealite art? Bill Whithers? Greek mythology anyone?
The three BEST friends in my world are my husband, my little sister and my really close one time girlfriend. And she’s a diplomats daughter so she is… well diplomatic.
Well I am still in contact with a few childhood friends. That one time I started the ‘Kids Association’ fighting for the injustice kids have to face in this world. Like not having sleepovers when they want for instance. The placards we used for the strikes got us past the mothers and started negotiations with the fathers - but one of the uncles was not very pleased.
They seemed to prefer the theatrical productions for some reason, but thats besides the point - I do try to forget those days fgs I even had an anthem
But at least we won the case in spending extended amounts of time with our friends over the Summer holidays
Almost all pakistani girls I know are so judgemental, so few of them actually say ‘that may be in our culture but its not right’, the laid back attitude they take really gets to me, I get all fired up and ready to take on the world and the next thing you know everyone is acting like a deflated balloon.
Is there something wrong with me? I know I can be blunt
Like the time my cousin made fun of me in front of her family for being petite. She told me that kids grow most in their sleep and I must not have been sleeping enough because I was small.
I told her she must have overslept because she was way too wide proportion wise.
Those kind of remarks just don’t win me any favors, handling too many guests is my forte (thankyou ammi jaan) but really speaking out what you believe in? I guess it would get everyone gasping and fanning themselves
funnily enough my aunties in Pakistan think I’m sexy and cool, my aunties in England think I’m outspoken and too opinionated for a woman
sighs
And the time I wanted all the girls I know to a day of paint-balling? The only person again was the diplomats daughter. What is wrong with these women? Do they not want to have some fun?
men get all the fun - maybe thats why i hate them so much. Darn it.
yes this is a rant - but it has everything to do with relationships right? And my lack of building close ties with females…sheesh
