Hey Kenjifu, I was with you until I got to the part of you being best friends with your hubby. This is almost in the same vein as bollywood-discussing-gossip-monerging-lawn-suit-obsessed desi damsels. I mean what self-respecting, intelligent, smart lady would want to be friends with her husband.
you know what? Your right
its on par with saying who could possibly be as bourgeois as to sleep with their own husband
tsk