I don't even know what title to give ...

[Paheli00]

Re: I don’t even know what title to give …

@AbraCadabra

that i need to act a little differently, that i need to act carefully in places, that i need to know my responsibility towards him & my in-laws, even though he isnt here. This lack of feeling is leading me to lack of realization and to lack of responsibility. Some body please help me realize I am married & a wife.

I’m assuming that you’re still living with your parents. If I’m wrong in my assumption, please correct me. That being said…

Can you please explain the above b/c it really confused me? How should you “act differently” now that that nikah papers are signed? Especially in a situation where you and your husband are not living together…how do you think you behavior should change? What “responsiblity towards him and in-laws” do you think you’re not fulfilling?

I understand that lifestyle changes happen once you’re married and are living with your spouse. That bring obvious changes/adjustments that need to be made. But in a situation where you are not living with your spouse…I’m not sure what you feel should have changed as soon as you signed that piece of paper that has not changed…and is causing you so much distress.