"I can't do it! I'm just a housewife!"

Almost exactly a year ago, i opened a thread on one of the books published by this Muslim author, Dahling, if you luv me…. i came across her interview by an Islamic website, and thought i’d post it here. She’s a Muslim female Canadian author/poet/singer. i’m just posting the first part of this article, it’s too long to post in its entirety. List of her awards/published books is at the end.

Interview: Rukhsana Khan - Author, Poet Singer Extraordinaire, Mohammed Ayub Khan

Rukhsana Khan was born in Pakistan and moved to Canada when she was three. Growing up as a Muslim in Canada was difficult and she was often picked on and bullied by her classmates because of her background. To escape this trauma she turned to books.

It was Khan’s eighth grade teacher who first discovered her creative abilities and encouraged her to become a writer. Khan took the advice to heart and by the age of 16 had already written and illustrated her first book. Unfortunately, the work was rejected by a children’s book editor in New York. However, that same editor encouraged Khan to continue writing. That she did, going on to become an award-winning children’s author whose books have been published by major publishers including Scholastic, Inc.

Laced with moral themes, Khan’s books have been instant hits with both Muslim as well as non-Muslim children. In this interview with IslamOnline she talks about her writing career, Islamic themes and her latest book King of the Skies.

IslamOnline: When did you start writing and what was the motivating factor that led you towards becoming an author?

Rukhsana Khan: I first started writing when I was about fourteen years old. My English teacher told me I was a “poet” and should become an author when I grew up. The idea appealed to me because I absolutely loved books; but I didn’t think I could be one because of my cultural background.

But I began to dream of it. I thought it would be wonderful to write stories for other children, the kind of stories that I loved and cherished. So I proceeded to write a very bad novel called Carla the Gypsy Girl and a silly little picture book about a worm named Waldo.

My mother worked as a cleaning lady back then, to help feed us, and at the time she was working for an English professor from McMaster University. She told him about Waldo and he asked to see it. Before she came back to clean his house, he had sent it off to a New York publisher friend of his and I thought my dreams were coming true. Instead I received a rejection letter; a very nice rejection letter - my first.

After that I gave up on getting published for a while. But I still continued to write. I wrote songs, including a lullaby for my first child, and other poems. When my husband got involved with the masjid [mosque] newsletter I took on the children’s page. People liked my stories so much they encouraged me to get published.

The editors of the newsletter kept asking me to write for the sister’s page but I kept gravitating towards the children’s page.

About 10 years after my mother had first sent off Waldo, my husband bought me a desk. I was transferring my old files and came across the rejection letter I’d received. I realized that the lady was actually encouraging me, so I rewrote Waldo and waited for the acceptance to arrive. It didn’t. Instead I received a whole lot more rejections.

So I started studying writing. I took courses, went to conferences and seminars, and I read voraciously. People told me I’d never make it because of the way I dress - I wear hijab [headscarf]. But I didn’t give up. It took six years to get my first acceptance, although that book didn’t work out. But by eight years I had not one book accepted, but five. Then it took me another four years before I sold my sixth.

Writing and publishing is a very sporadic type of business.

One of the things that motivated me and kept me going through all the rejection was the anger I felt at Salman Rushdie. One day I fumed to my husband, “Why don’t we as Muslims write something to counter what he wrote?”

My husband said, “What’s wrong with you?”

But I thought, “I can’t do it! I’m just a housewife!”

He said, “Nobody else is [doing it].”

And I thought, “He’s right.”

[Rest of article accessible via link]
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Published Works
King of the Skies, Scholastic Canada, 2001
Bedtime Ba-A-A-lk, Stoddart Kids, 1998.
The Roses in My Carpets, Holiday House, 1998.
Dahling, If You Luv Me, Would You Please, Please Smile, Stoddart Kids, 1999.
Muslim Child, Napoleon Publishing, 1999

Short stories: Fajr, Santa didn’t Come, Message International, July and December 1993

Songs: A Little Sadaqa, Thank You Allah, Born to Learn, One Big Family, Where Can My Baby Sister Be? (Sound Vision, Adam’s World Videos 5, 6, 7, 8)

Awards
The Roses in My Carpets: The Honorary Janusz Korczak International Literature Award of the Polish Section of IBBY (International Board on Books for Young People) in 1998

Dahling, If You Luv Me, Would You Please, Please Smile: Short-listed for Red Maple Award; short-listed for the Ruth Schwartz (2000) and nominated for the Manitoba Young Reader’s Choice Awards (2001)

Muslim Child: Short-listed for the 2001 Hackmatack Award. Canadian Children’s Book Centre “Our Choice”.

Other Memberships
The Storytellers School of Toronto
Storytellers of Canada

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it definitely is....

This is encouraging. Thanks for the post Nadia. smile

Thanks :~)

Re: “I can’t do it! I’m just a housewife!”

I think its more cultural than religious. How can you be
religious if you sing. She talked about Basant.And what’s the
point in bringing up Salman Maloon.

Rehman my friend, you don’t have to quote the entire post. Maybe if i had posted a decisive thread on sectarianisms to see how much further we can divide our already cracked and bleeding ummah, that would have been more positive.

i forgot to mention, she has her own website: http://www.rukhsanakhan.com

if a person is talking Quran and Sunnah, than according to YOU its

sectarianism SO BE IT. Well THAT lady talked about Islam , rushdie

and Basant. And the point was WHAT. She just wants to make a quick

buck($).Hence, Islam ka name USE karooo.

if a man or woman is singing, what right do they have to talk

about Islam.

Game set match. :k: Aap tau hain the perfect judge of someone’s character, right? Without ever meeting her, laying your eyes on her, hearing her discuss an issue, never ever knowing her, based upon one little thread in an online discussion forum, you figure out her motivations and desires. She is not a good Muslim, according to you, she is simply greedy. wah. Kia baat hai. :k: You can judge everyone with your magical crystal ball i guess.

I don’t believe in Fortune Telling. Mera judgement criteria
Islami assolo per Mabni he. I try my best.CHayee kisse ko
achaa lageee yaaa buraaaa.

Dear Nadia,

Do you know Janusz Korczak is? Well maybe is..isn't the right word.

Ever heard his story?

The Roses in My Carpets: The Honorary Janusz Korczak International Literature Award of the Polish Section of IBBY (International Board on Books for Young People) in 1998

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Yes. Wasn’t he a Polish Jew who was held by the Nazis, then later released, but he insisted on being taken to the concentration camp if his fellow Jews were also going to be taken? Sorry, i might have some of my facts muddled up, but that’s as far as i know. :flower1:

Actually I think he was a polish jew who was head of a orphanage and a well respected teacher.

I think he and the people he worked with died with the kids the Nazi's had no use for.

I could be mistaken.

intressting

let me see her site ....