Have you ever done this?reached out to someone that you broke up with or had a fight with…only to realize that they are just as arrogant,cold and pathetic as when you broke up with them.I knew this girl, she had an absolutley huge crush on me ,we got very close, but then we started to have differences and called it off with bitteness inside our hearts for eachother.Its been 4 years since we split up.The other day I just started to think about her and wondered where she might be now…so decided to contact her to find out how she was doing…after all this was a girl who used to call me 10 times a day.Guess what..I got totally snubbed by her.She did’nt even want to remember my name.She was like oh yeah I do remember a little bit.I felt really bad having contacted this person…its true that we had differences in the past, but i thought by now she must have grown up a bit and would be a bit more mellow,but she has’nt changed a bit.I feel pretty bad letting my guard down and reaching out to her as if she was still a good friend.
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Don't feel bad for yourself. Feel sorry for her. She probably doesn't even see her own faults or immaturity.
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I can c why she'd forget who you were. Maybe you were just a really really really bad mistake on her part, she was at a bad point in her life when she was calling you 10 times a day, probably had no self esteem and is just humiliated at her past choices.
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logically speaking if two ppl have a massive falling out, and years later one of the two wants to initiate contact, it is not unusual that the other person is ovr this person and has moved on with their life and has no interest in digging up something which they had walked away from.
Maybe she has grown up and maybe she realizes that no good will come out of reinitiating contact,..maybe she is even engaged or married and does not want to bring the past out and is more comfortable letting bygones be bygones
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its actually good tht u did it
later on u wont have any regrets..like only iffffffffff
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I dont see anything wrong with what she did, like faisal said some people just dont wanna deal with the past.
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where is faisal!!
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Fraudia, faisal same difference
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I guess i am good as long as i am not telling people to fraudz off
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actually as time moves on u tend to forget past feelings and believes about people which you may have formed then.proly thats what happened to me..i forgot all the bad things about her.lol
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^i would appreciate if u would not respond to my posts.i have asked that before.
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what were you expecting when you called her After 4years... like how much she missed you etc. ??
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no no.i was'nt expecting anything but alteast a bit of courtesy to admit that she knew me.
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now u realized that what gud decision u made by breaking up wid her rite?!
Mayb she had so many bfs after u .. that she really didnt remember u
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no her bf took advantage of her then left her crying in england.lol.i realized that long time ago then i forgot only to realize it again
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^^ bhai, it was quite normal reponse from her, as she might have been hooked with someone now and dont want to talk to you politely or restart a dead communication channel. surely she does remember you though.
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just roll with it if you have done it .
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Haha :P well its ok dont worry about it.
rather can calling her arrogant and other words in my opinion i think that you should not have salted her wounds - the person which in your opinion is arrogant and imature is rather sensitive and she did this to get back at you to make you realise that you hurt her at some point in life. its odd how people remember how the other person treated them, said to them but forget or dont even realise how they themselves might have treated others.
and why do you feel so bad only because you made one phone call? why do you feel bad that she didnt respond AS YOU EXPECTED? isnt it obvious that after four years anything is possible to happen, maybe she just found someone else - you guys never made a contract that she or you would wait for the other person for so and so time period and then move on.