I attended five weddings last year

[Sara516]

Re: I attended five weddings last year

@CM

Agreeing to a marriage where you don’t feel compatible makes you an idiot.
Getting married when you don’t feel its compatible makes you an idiot.
Then not giving it a chances makes you an idiot.
Lastly getting the divorce before you have moved in together to see if the marriage can still works makes you an idiot.

So yeah idiot to the power for 4.

That’s an unusually harsh and narrow minded view CM.

How do you even know if you’re compatible unless you get to know someone? It’s not like desis can date extensively before deciding if they want to marry.

How many chances is one supposed to give before calling it quits?

One can argue–better to break now than years later when things would get messier, like if kids were involved.

You can still hang in and make all sorts of compromises and every effort to make it work, but

I doubt anyone that was close to all 4 can even say what exactly happened. For all we know, each side could have raised huge red flags that only came about after having the nikkah.