Re: I am trying to understand the psychology here. part 2
So do you wanna be with her????
If the answer is YES: then you have every right to wounder and ask the question, "whats up with that now?"
However, if your answer is NO: what will you really achieve by knowing and why do you even care?
Lastly, no guppy can give you the appropriate answer, but can only assume. Therefore, think to yourself, how reliable is that really?
Go ask her yourself, and if you do not have the guts to do such a thing, WELL, MOVE ON!