anyway the new developments. she does not b**** anymore. she is not talking to that other guy anymore.
our seating plan changed and now she is sitting a little farther. a few times i have seen her watching me .as soon as she saw me catching her watching me, she instantly took her gaze away. I am sitting in the front row while she is sitting one row behind, at the opposite extreme.
as someone said here, i have talked to her but not much. except for salam dua, i have not said anything else. but i see a difference. whenever she talks to the rest of the people, she is always laughing and smiling. not with me. she keeps a very serious tone. and that is just with me.
whats up with that now?
Heheh…Jaanaan, methinks you still have some sort of feelings for her…perhaps it’s a slight (and i mean slight) crush…perhaps it’s just curiosity…but either way that girl is ON YOUR MIND!
And being a girl…I feel that she likes you. I can relate to her behavior. Often times…we behave normally around people that we’re not interested in. In other words we’re comfortable around them. But when you like someone…you can become nervous and a bit uptight. I’ve often heard that a sign that someone might have feelings toward you is that their behavior will tend to stand out or differ around YOU than compared to around other people.
This is just my opinion that I’m basing on personal experience.
There’s a possibility that I could be wrong and that maybe she’s just looking at you because you once expressed interest in her. And maybe she’s serious around you because she doesn’t want to lead you on. But if she feels nothing for you…she should be acting more normal right?
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Jaanaan, u will never find out what is going through that girl's mind by asking readers to tell you. Anything they tell u will be an opinion based on YOUR OWN OPINION (i.e. we can only go by what you write).
Stop beating about the bush, u r still keen on her, be straight, you r not kids anymore.
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She seems a bit like me. Certain people when they find out someone likes them treat them differently. She's either shy, she probably likes you too but because of the fecent break up is a bit sceptical.
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i have read your threads, the only thing evident from all this, she is interested and so are you! any proposal that came out of blue, many would just say no unless it was on their radar! so thats what she has done. later you were on her radar and she knew you are upset. i havnt seen anything sinister here. so just talk to her, its all good whatever the outcome! and most likely its positive.
