Some people automatically assume that their words and actions will hurt noone as they are paragons of niceites and yet blunder away bakwasing without consideration and trample all over annothers feelings.
OK so you are “sensitive” and so forth however just because the individual opposite you does not show it every time you cry shipwrecked its hurts them too.
Its possibly why I am being so cranky, I think I would like people to stop assuming that their actions will not hurt me so much as mine will them.
I miss poeple and the more I miss them the more rude and so forth I am with them. I miss you
annother thing, it really is pathetic when the actions of one consumes and overwhelms your times with loves ones. That should never have to be the case.
arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh
I wanna run away to some island where poeple are telepathic so i dnt have to try and explain to epopel why i feel jst as upset as somebody else and as a result why im acting so wierd or pissed off or annoyed or just generally frustrated at the world.
earlier today for example I was talking to a boootiful individual, whom i wanted to myself at the time, and who had to take an abrupt time out to check over some hypochondriac
is it selfish of me? is i still selfish of me if i say i hadnt had any real time with this individual since sunday?
maybe im just too posessive over poeple i like or maybe i need to chill out or maybe i too am over sensitive, stuff like that shouldnt hurt me more should it
you know the really tragic thing is? That that doesnt ven really sum it up. that jus anoys me further.
ok..so ur problem is communicating your feelings?
obviously this person means a lot to you, and im sure if you tried explaining to them what you just have tried to explain now, they'l understand..
no one is too manly to articulate feelings...howays man..get a grip
sometimes you have to be selfish otheriwse how will people know? one cant assume your point of view if you dont even try to express it..
maybe you need to clarify the problem with yourself first then try to explain/express.
im sensitive about this kind of stuff too, i like people to listen to what i say without interupting me, i hate being caught out in the middle of a conversation as i lose my flow and forget what im saying.
Whether you vent, combust, or do whatever, other people are going to follow whatever course of action suits them best. Some things may seem acceptable to one but not to another. Go figure.
Sounds like major communication problems. Rather than wishing people are telepathic, confront it and talk about it (meaning tell whoever is involved what you are thinking/feeling and going through).
Hiccy-- I told you to open up to me, I would have helped you and you know it.
Btw I think we have a right to be a little possessive with those we really care about --uh a lot.And meri jaan you have to talk to the other person.But its true, sometimes people dont have their priorities straight.Anyhow maybe give that person the silent treatment, or something.Evil mood
All I got out of it is that the emergency is now over. phew.