I am sad! :(

Hello everyone!

As from my previous thread, http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/541831-whether-is-he-really-a-good-person.html I felt there was something fishy about this guy, and so once i tried spying on him, i found out he has a different profile on same matrimonial site where he was a premium member.When i caught him red-handed,he tried justifying his acts and tried making up stories which just didn’t fit in.We kept on exchanging messages,and i just told him not to ever contact me again, so he again started like he loves me only and still now he wants to marry me, blah blah blah, grrrrrrrrrrrrr!! but i didn’t listen to any nonsense he had to talk anymore.

But now, i feel so bad for myself :frowning: Why did he have to do like this with me? :frowning: It’s just making me feel so sad and low. How to move on and start feeling better again? :frowning:

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The only reason you should feel bad is if you let yourself get duped like this again and if you let your feelings for him linger. Stop wasting your time investing in relationships with people who use you and take you for granted. If you repeat the same mistakes again, then, yeah, you should feel bad. Otherwise be proud you caught him when you did, chalk it up to experience, and move on.

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Yes, I won’t let myself get duped like this again :insh: I just feel bad. Just help me with ways to start feeling okay!

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Is it a long distance relationship? You are not in the same country/state?

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Same country!

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Give yourself some time. Have patience with yourself and just go out and do different things. Honestly, you will forget about this in no time.

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rpetal: why are you sad. it is time to find another murgha.
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/541831-whether-is-he-really-a-good-person.html#post8702546

Re: I am sad! :(

Well...nothing happened. You didn't marry him. You met him, tried to get to know him, realized he was lying and now you're moving on.

This stuff happens...the only time you should feel bad is if you don't learn from this.

I am glad you didn't end up with him. You may be upset right now but its okay...its better than being upset forever.