I am Pakistani but I don't mind my wife wearing a bikini in public

[Le_Pakistan]

Re: I am Pakistani but I don’t mind my wife wearing a bikini in public

@Deeba1234

Agree with S&S..

I also think Pakistanis place a disproportionate emphasis on womens’ clothing and behaviour in general..

There are a LOT of sins which aren’t that uncommon in our culture (eg forced marriages, living with inlaws) yet the ones people seem most bothered concern the way women dress or behave, even if those sins aren’t necessarily hurting other people.. I’m NOT saying they aren’t sins because obviously they are but our attitudes towards them are very skewed imo..

You see girls like that Arab Miss USA, Lilly Ghalichi or even Rita Ora who are all Muslims but don’t get anywhere near the amount of abuse that a Pakistani celeb would.. Look at their IGs and see how many ‘what kind of Muslim are you?’ comments there are in comparison to someone like Faryal Makhdoom who in comparison is a** lot** more modest in terms of dress..

Yes attitudes of people (not just Pakistanis) towards different matters, sins in this case, are skewed because us humans view it from our own subjective point of view.
Some people see living with inlaws as a major sin, but wont mind slooty clothes etc. Others prefer a joint family system, but what is the problem if you live like that and stay within limits of religion… and hey I am one of the skewed people just like anyone else.

A lot of people don’t even know that Rita Ora is muslim. I am sorry but these girls do get abused a lot online. You are checking on the wrong forums/places