I am not like other Pakistani Girls.....

Maybe, but don’t forget i’m better then them! :blush:

Yes agreed, til the day they are converted to wife…

and now everyone knows demographics, nationalities, traditions, and other cultural things cannot create a different between a wife in Pakistan and a wife in any other planet in the galaxy

Re: I am not like other Pakistani Girls.....

Don't consider others are less than you and you are better than them. you all are great Pakistani and so most of Pakistani are good!

Yes because they become really really extra nice after getting married.

:k:

Yes nice enough make all the hairs on Man's head disappear, setting him free from the expense of shampoo and comb...

pinching him with same old stupid question, AAJ kiya pakana hay, for which man have no clue what so ever...

and...

:rotfl:

Re: I am not like other Pakistani Girls.....

Hanibal you get laid. That is enough of a reason to put up with all the rest. If the getting laid part stops, time for the second wife! :D

Uffff yaar i agree with you 100%! i was born and raised in USA and let me tell u, i'm 10x more religious, cultural and modest as compared to most of the girls you'll find in PK. i mean, WHAT is their deal? they really need to get over themselves and daddy's paycheck, lol. most of them dont even know how to boil an egg or make a cup of chai!!!

may be because they don't live separate from their families and do have enough money to afford servants. And also, as you are religious enough so you should know that women don't have to work to earn a living if they have gurdians.

WELL then....why dont you try cooking for once? or twice? or the whole month and see how hard it sometimes is to decide WHAT to cook...tsk tsk...

all talk...no game...

thats not the point Hareem…i dont care if they have a million guardians to support them until their last dying day. having money is great, why not. but they dont have to SHOW it off…and they dont have to act all ‘‘nakra wali’’ all the time. that act is getting old and lame. …and im not even talking about working to earn a living. where in my post did i mention that those girls have to have jobs? i’m just saying that they (the ones i’ve encountered) need personality checks. sorry if i offended u or anyone else…but some of the ppl i’ve encounterd in pk…oh my. :nahi:

ya very funny, it is easy to make fun of others.. hope you'll join the party soon...

2nd wife is garantee for Jannah, but i'll rather adopt different methods to get Jannah...

No i don't under-estimate any work... but come on, how many time a husband ask his wife that what he should do at office???

Yes you are right…they show off a lot…but I’m not like them, I’m different. lol

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yes exactly, thanks for understandng Hareem. im not trying to stererotype. blv me, i met a lot of nice girls there too...but overall, you know...the girls/families are showoffs, lol.

Well if this is the reality then I'm kinda sad to see that Pakistani Girls in general aren't considered very nice.

Its not a bad thing....

Its one of the properties of avg(typical) pakistani gal to say "am not typical paki gal".

probably they r trying to be different and not thinkin that this is what every pakistani gal is trying to do, and now the gals who oinitially didnt mind being a typical paki gal dont sound that typical. (hope it makes sense)

lol
i'm not gonna lie i can't make chai for the life of me, but i can cook everything else, so ya i'm still better.

But its not about the cooking its more about growing up and taking responsibility. I think most of them are never given any responsibility from the parents, and everything is presented on a platter. So when they get married, they don't even know where to start, because everything was sloved for them before.

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dont feel sad…MOST of us American born pakistani girls arent considered nice either. although, here we are raised much more closely by our parents in accordance to religion and culture b/c our parents feel like they have to compensate for being so far from the ‘motherland’…so they are extra strict, etc…u know?? it saddens ME too to know that ppl back home in PK feel that us american born girls are vulgar, modern, ‘bigree vee’, outgoing, cant speak urdu, cant wear shalwar kameez, etc etc…

so i guess it works both ways… :frusty:

Re: I am not like other Pakistani Girls.....

CM: back to your topic

i feel (along with others) that the girls who are specifically listing their good attributes and trying to prove themselves are indeed lacking in self confidence. this may sound corny but, let the true you shine through. every one is unique in their own way. one persons uniqueness might be another persons norm...whos to judge? but this 'faking specialness' is just tacky. if these girls can be mature and be themselves, im sure ALOT more ppl will like and appreciate them