Re: I am not at all excited about my rukhsati
No its because i think its a pointless expensive show and drama for other people.
If it was up to me and husband we would have a garden party with 50 people and informality, no stage, no 450 guestlist etc etc
Therefore both of us have lost interest in it completely because our wedding is what is expected of us from our friends/family we both suggested this small informal garden party for a rukhsati and our parents and family went nuts and got super upset and thought we had lost our minds there was no negotiating it.