I think the girl’s family in general arranges, but the card says “sister and sister” request the prescence of your…
That;s how we did it for my bro’s wedding. we had our own dholkis too at our house. but the mehndi was in a hall.
for my sil’s mehndi all the dances were mostly super choreagraphed …they worked really hard…and they’re were many. And then there were this section where the little girls danced to (less then 10years old). They were like professionals! Cuz they practiced so much lol. it was cute. At the end it was free style…and everyone did whatever they wanted to on the dance floor.
we also wear green or yellow at our mehndi’s.
That night all the guys went paintballing. and one of my lil bros got one on the neck! he still has the mark, so we joke it’s a tattoo so he’ll remember his bro’s wedding. lol.
at the shadi, "no money, no honey’ was fun too!!! my sil’s side has tall guys, so there was some playful pushing lol. they have this one picture where all the guys are holding money like this:
except without the glasses. it sooooo hilarious!!! it was funnest time of my life! we didn’t sleep like for a week. lol.