Re: I am...mad?
Salaam.
So I have a bit of a problem here. The guy I really care abt and possibly love and who btw also claims to love me and wants to marry me and etc. recently tells me I'm not that pretty. Okay so all my life i've been used to hearing 'youre so pretty youre so cute' (im not bragging at all), and so to hear this I'm like wat..the..fck. Especially from someone who "loves" you.
I mean I'm no aishwariya but I think he's gorgeous bc of how much he means to me, his personality...etc. And hes like...well you're hot...but I didnt pick you bc ur the prettiest girl...i mean nothing stands out abt you (?!?). I mean no matter how I look I should always be beautiful to him, right because he looooves me so much and looooves my personality soo much? Am I being a brat here? I mean everyones entitled to his/her own opinion I'm all down for that but I want my spouse to think I'm beautiful. So i told him I deserve better and now he thinks I was playing with his mind and hes hurt.
Lol right so i've always been a confident girl mA and I refuse to let him waiver that, but I'm wondering if that has anything to do with his emotions? Like I'm really confused...I dunno how to interpret his comments. He told me to get over myself. Am I being unreasonable here? Or should I drop it like its hot?
Are you self-centered and too high on yourself that he told you to 'get over yourself'?. Are you sure you are not pushing him to say this?