Re: I am looking for...
Look, it's like this. The big fork on the right is for salads and the little fork next to that serves no purpose whatsoever. Then there's the big spoon, which is for soups. The little spoon is for your main dish (rice or whatever). Big knife is for cutting, little knife for spreading (butter).
When all else fails, eat with your hands. It's sunnah, you know. :)