Re: I am confused.
Sigh…
OP, did you know prior to marrying your husband, that the situation was such that you wouldn’t be able to live your husband right away? Has it always been like this? You said you joined him after 3 years of marriage, where were you before?
NO I didn´t know.
I don’t really know what to advise you. It’s a sucky situation to be in for sure, and I don’t blame you for being frustrated, however, think long and hard…you know your husband, we don’t…do you think that there are any suggestions we can give that you haven’t tried yourself?
On a side note, I honestly don’t understand this concept that is prevalent in our culture of marrying someone who is settled somewhere or in a situation where the couple can’t or doesn’t live together and see each other only once a year. I’ve seen it in my extended family as well…it’s so annoying
Yes it is definitely odd to live alone especially when kids are there. I am totally against this. I told my husband before marriage that I would live with you.