why is it some women say that their sons should live with them after marriage but will get so annoyed if their daughters in laws want their sons to live with them after wedding.
and if like they dont like their son in laws providing for their sisters but despite this they say that my son should provide for my daughter because its his sister, thats soo annoying because their son in laws do have responsibilities to their sisters just like their son have.
and they mind if their daughters in laws stay with their daughter but its ok if they stay with their daughter in laws because they say why cant i stay because its my sons house, im like so what they are also living with their son, if you can so can they, if its a problem then you shouldnt be living with your sons either
many more examples, i can go on forever
i just cringe every time they say things like this.. so illiterate and hypocrites
Hain? Am I reading this right? but will get so annoyed if their daughters in laws want their sons to live with them after wedding. <----- Matab shadi se pehle he daughters in laws ne bache paida kiay hotay hain or chahti hain ke bache apne hamare saath rahain OR when they have their kids and want them to live with them. I hope my second option is correct as it took me 5 minutes to understand this question. :halo:
She meant after shadi, the daughter in law might want their daughters in law to live them.
She actually means to say that Saas bhi kabhi bahu thi kinda situation. A saas has different standards for different situations depending on whatever suits her best. A mom does not like if her daughter is asked to care for her in-laws but she would want her bahu to care for her in-laws. So she has different standards. When she is thinking about her own daughter, she becomes a kind and gentle mom who wants the best for her daughter, and when she is thinking about her bahu, she becomes a strict saas.
She meant that the woman would not want her own daughter to have to live with her in laws but the same woman would want her son and daughter in law to live with her.
