Re: hymenoplasty
X2- Honesty ina rel'p is very important to me, and I for one wouldnt hide such things. But I also dont find it necessary to go into a relationship and just announce the status of my chastity... its just plain weird.. and I think its really unnecessary for the person to know. If I found out by communicating with the person that a popped hymen would be an issue with him, then i would simply tell him... hey you know this might not work. And as you said dont marry such men... I wouldnt.. no way no how. I was just making an inference about the poster just like everyone else.... she's obviously dealing with a narrowminded dude... rishta process in pk is very difficult and its hard to come across any takers.... so you cant exactly be picky either.
I still think what he doesnt know cant hurt him. Lying about something as trivial as a hymen isnt soooo bad compared to other stuff.. but I guess I see your point.